2003-04-16 - 3:22 p.m.

the case for its-because-im-wierd

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Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yo bro

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

did u have happy b'day ?

(myself) says:

it was ok

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

just ok? damn!

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

so u on uni holidays yet?

(myself) says:

no, starts Monday

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

it was nice of you to unblock me

(myself) says:

thanks

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

..yah. so what's news?

(myself) says:

Are you sure you want to know?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yes i wanna know. what's news?

(myself) says:

Basically in my attempts to get over you I have led myself to unknown depths of anguish and despair

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

you'd better not be doing anything stupid

(myself) says:

Such as?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

such as the things that you've tried before

(myself) says:

Sorry I'm starting to be sarcastic again

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

ya...i feel like its all my fault that you're so depressed

(myself) says:

It's not your fault, I was mad well before I met you, remember?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

I remember

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

but contrary to what you might beleive, I do care about you. I couldnt live with my self i knew you'd done something stupid partly because of what happened between us.

(myself) says:

I have a rare mental condition among malekind, that is, when I say "I love you" to someone, I actually mean it, and my heart won't let me go. Whereas most guys see it as a stepping stone to getting into some girl's pants

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yeah i understand. i'm sorry things turned out the way they did you know im' sorry! so so so so sorry...

(myself) says:

What is done is done. What happens from now on is not your fault

(myself) says:

I just want to know what did I do wrong

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

but what happens in the future is because of what i did to you in the past

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

and i need you to look after yourself...i dont wanna lose you ..nor does ur family or ur friends

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

you didnt do anything

(myself) says:

Don't worry I'm over hurting myself physcally at lest for now.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i want you to say "i'm over hurting myself for good."

(myself) says:

I can only interpret my feelings at present let alone guarantee that any such interpretation is accurate

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

alright. please please dont do anything stupid

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

it worries me

(myself) says:

And at the moment I do not feel that I will do anything to harm myself having been there before and founf out that it's not worth it

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

kudos to you please smile for me

(myself) says:

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yay

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i'm having a sneezing fit

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

ok finished

(myself) says:

You really love Ben?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

do you really want me to answer that

(myself) says:

Yes

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yes i love him. i love him more than anything now...there are times where i doubt myself...but i know that deep down i cant let him go.

(myself) says:

I have been contemplating recently whether love really exists or whether it is just a series of chemoicals over which we exercise no moral control and which leads our actions, but I don't want to believe that

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

everyone beleives different things. i dont think love is chemicals etc.

(myself) says:

What is it?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i cant answer that in words...its too hard. but i'll try. its like a feeling/emotion that you can only gain when you know someone better than they know themselves, the feeling that if you imagine life without them you feel sick, you cant stand any minute ur away from them...and you think about them every minute of the day

(myself) says:

In that case, I know exactly how that feels

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

and when its taken away...you feel like you're going to die...but it goes away...trust me

(myself) says:

How can I make it go away???

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

time

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

distraction

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

someone new

(myself) says:

That was the theory. I went looking for someone new. It happened again, only 10 times worse

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

who's the new person then

(myself) says:

What do you want to know?

(myself) says:

Her name is Gh.B

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

where did you meet her

(myself) says:

Or should I say was, because I don't know if I will ever see her again

(myself) says:

On the net

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

and you went to meet her? and what happened

(myself) says:

What happened is I had the best day of my life and I would have sworn she did too

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yeah? wow where did you go

(myself) says:

To the city

(myself) says:

Found a nice corner in the FIT building on a Sunday when I had the security PIN

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

what does that mean

(myself) says:

We were inseparable

(myself) says:

Every gesture, every word, every glance, told of how we loved each other

(myself) says:

Then we went to a bar, played pool

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

see this is ur problem right there

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

you get sooo immediately attatched

(myself) says:

Please tell me

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

Every gesture, every word, every glance, told of how we loved each other

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

that!

(myself) says:

Well der

(myself) says:

What do you expect?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

u'd known each other for like what a few hours?! and u say that

(myself) says:

What is wrong with me then?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i dont know

(myself) says:

I just think that girls want guys who will mistreat them and knock them around because that's what they believe they deserve. No girl wants love anymore

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

that's not true

(myself) says:

Well what did I do wrong??

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

none of my boyfriends (cept one) has ever mistreated me or knocked me around

(myself) says:

Is this just the way I am? Am I going to suffer like this forever?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i cant answer that.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

well what happened with Gh.B then

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

?

(myself) says:

You mean after?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yea

(myself) says:

Then we left the bar as if we had known each other forever, or at least that's the way it felt, and I told her that, and she was reluctant to leave me, we were so attracted to each other, and then a while later she sends me an SMS saying "Miss me yet? " and so at that point I was certain she liked me as much as I did her

(myself) says:

And then the next day we talked on the net, she couldn't find the time to see me, and she was "confused" about me

(myself) says:

Then the next day she had relatives over and assignments to do so she couldn't see me and I just needed to "give her time"

(myself) says:

And then last night she says that she "doesn't believe in love" and that she doesn

(myself) says:

t believe that she can be loved

(myself) says:

And that she is a mess and that I "could do better"

(myself) says:

Even though I was telling her how much she meant to me etcetc

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

maybe you came on too strong. give her time.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

she sounds strange "dont beleive in love."

(myself) says:

I came one strong? You should have seen her at uni

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

? explain

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

u went to uni? what?

(myself) says:

I've never known anyone to be so passionate, so full of feminine-energy

(myself) says:

When we were at uni, on Sunday

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

u mean she jumped you

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

lol

(myself) says:

Not quite like that

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

ok

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

haha

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i'm sorry give her time to breathe

(myself) says:

I guess... I don't have any better ideas

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

neither do i

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

dont take it personally. what happened me had nothing to do with you. you were in the right place and the wrong time.

(myself) says:

What is wrong with me though? This always happens.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i cant answer that. all i can say was when it comes to what happened btw u and me it was nothing to do with u! it would have happened to anyone who was in ur position

(myself) says:

There is not one thing that I can point to and say "That is the reason! why I can't keep a girl!", like if I were grotesquely fat, or had really bad B.O., or something...

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

lol

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i'm sorry (myself) i cant tell u

(myself) says:

What am I supposed to do now?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

accept it

(myself) says:

My head can, my heart can't

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

your heart will heal

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

they always do

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

now = later =

(myself) says:

I'm not sure about mine though, I'm a guy that is capable of love

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

that's right and someone lucky deserves it...u just gotta find her

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

or him

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

...if ur that way inclined

(myself) says:

I most certainly am not

(myself) says:

You should know that

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

wouldnt matter if u were. but u know what i mean...someone lucky deserves what you got...u just gotta find her

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

haa

(myself) says:

Someone lucky... not necessarily someone suitable/brilliant/intelligent/beautiful/amazing...

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

there are not many of those ppl in this world. that's where COMPROMISE comes in

(myself) says:

I become attached too easily, but isn't that the way it's supposed to be? What ever happened to trust, faith, a bit of courage?? Today it's more like try-before-you-buy

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

well because there are so many ppl to choose from! u have to try-before-you-buy; and also because there are so many ppl who u cant trust

(myself) says:

Well then there is my weakness. I am too trusting

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

brb keep typing

(myself) says:

So should I put any future prospective girlfiend through a pop-psych test like ones you get out of Cleo to see if she is going to cruelly dump me or something? I'd rather live my life and enjoy the journey!

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

then do so!!

(myself) says:

You really think girls want that though? And besides it's completely against my nature

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

girls dont want that

(myself) says:

I know

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

but u gotta do it! cause guys who get all attatched are worse than guys who do psyche-tests

(myself) says:

But that's only because society makes girls believe that! But I believe that that is wrong!

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

then...go for gold. but u continue to get caught....u might wanna change ur game plan

(myself) says:

Mmm, tough decision

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yeh

(myself) says:

So what should I do then? Look for another girl and take it real easy?

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yes

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

treat em mean...keep em keen

(myself) says:

I hate that saying

(myself) says:

Maybe that is what Gh.B is doing to me?

(myself) says:

Hell, I have no idea

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

maybe

(myself) says:

But my heart is still attached to her

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i'm sorry but i gotta say this..how can one week u be desperately in love with me and then the next week desperately in love with someone else? it doesnt work like that. maybe ur not in love...

(myself) says:

Yes it does seem like I have some crossed-wires up there doesn't it

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yes.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

what do u think it is?

(myself) says:

Well, I know without a doubt that what I feel is genuine. Perhaps I was just born to make someone happy.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i dont think u can love 2 people at once

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

u either didnt love me

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

or u dont love her

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

or u dont love either of us

(myself) says:

Well I didn't "at once", when you made it clear I was not welcome, after a few weeks of blocking you on messenger I didn't feel like that

(myself) says:

Having said that , I still love you in the sense that I want to see you happy even though that fact that I am not likely to be the one to realise this is no longer as painful as it was

(myself) says:

That doesn't mean that I don't love you

(myself) says:

When it comes to Gh.B, she herself is genuinely confused and I don't believe that she intended any harm by what she has done, I believe her when she says she doesn't believe in love although I don't agree with it

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

so u think that i intended harm?

(myself) says:

No I don't think that you meant it, that's just the way life is, there will be pain

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

ok

(myself) says:

Why can't a girl be attached to me though? Girls these days are so proud of being independant and don't want to feel like they are being "cared for" by a man, so they play games instead, why is this??

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

that's not true eitiher

(myself) says:

Well, I am completely stumped

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i'm independent but i also love being cared for and fussed over and i love ben being protective of me. and only some girls play games....not all of them

(myself) says:

Well I just wish I could meet someone like that

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

keep looking.

(myself) says:

Oh, that doesn't happen to have a boyfriend already, that would be a bonus

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

of course

(myself) says:

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

(myself) says:

awww thanks

(myself) says:

Pity it's not real

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

hey i got my tongue pierced

(myself) says:

Tell me about it

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

did i tell u

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

it hurts

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

well...not any more

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

but it did

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

i got it changed today...to a metallic blue one.

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

it looks ok

(myself) says:

Yes and you were telling me how listerine made it feel better...

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

think i prefer silver tho

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

yeah! listerine is my god

(myself) says:

Thanks for talking to me, I better go

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

alright

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

speak to you later <-- for ur b'day

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

lol

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

cya

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

take care

(myself) says:

bye Gh.L

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

cya look after u self ok

Gh.L~Speechless and redundant cause "I love you"'s not enough I'm lost for words says:

byeeee

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